June 24, 2011 marks a major part in our history with marriage equality passing in New York State and in 30 days it will pass into law. So glad we are seeing this in our lifetime and now the waiting game begins till we see it fully go through on July 24, 2011. Congratulations LGBT, this is a major step in the right direction to human rights for all equally.

When we first met back on October 3, 1993 we never even thought of getting married or even thought we would be here 18 years later. But here we are today and marriage is for everyone, gay, lesbian, straight, transgender, bi. Such a special time in New York City. Read the rest of this entry

“Out, Gay & Loving It With Pride in New York City June 2011.” In honor of Pride Month Two Thousand Eleven we are taking it to the streets with pre-recorded interviews, history tidbits, LGBT Art, LGBT Culture, LGBT Music and chats with Christopher Street youth June 5th -12th airing on the 19th Live for three hours.

All the different aspects of our community and the different contributions to society our community gives. What does Pride mean to you? Read the rest of this entry

Morning, Afternoon, Evening everyone, Here comes the 26 annual AIDS Walk nYc. Be a part of history! We would love to walk with you on May 15th, 2011 for a great cause Can’t make it? Make a small donation in our team name backinthegays, even $5.00 can make a difference. Hope all is well and Thank you for being a part of our lush history. Hugs Rob & Cisco

Register & Donate (copy and paste) link below:

http://www.kintera.org/faf/donorreg/donorpledge.asp?ievent=447459&supId=321023599&msource=bfgetwordout Read the rest of this entry

Morning everyone, hope you’re all doing well. Want to wish everyone a Happy Easter! Also want to Thank Johnny Banks and Chuck from Montclair New Jersey for sending this AMAZINGLY creative Easter card that they handmade and all the wishes! We are so lucky to have you guys in our lives and look forward to seeing you for the Easter Holiday. John & Chuck have made so many different contributions to our blog and our community.

But it is not what you give to us, it’s who you guys are as people that makes knowing you so special And Thank you, Thank you for being you and not conforming to anything else but being you. BIG Bear hugs and love to ALL our readers, extended family, contributors and friends! Read the rest of this entry

Want to start by saying thank you to Will from http://queersotv.com. Will has been a great supporter of back in the gays since day one, when our blog was not showing up on many different browsers he made it a point to bring it to our attention and has continued to show the love in many different ways.

The latest orgy of love was on his iTunes podcast Da Vinci’s Waking Dream ♥ Episode 28 ♡ Titled: Time. Never seems to be enough of it or energy. Will offers some time and energy saver tips that will help get you one step closer to where you want to be. Read the rest of this entry